Monday, July 06, 2015


Dorothy is generous, sarcastic, light-hearted, easy-going, adventurous, an entertainment trivia master, an animal lover, a world traveler, a handbag fashionista, and my Aunt Cathy's best friend. Dorothy is family. I've spent more family gatherings with Dorothy than some of my blood relatives. I've traveled to more places with Dorothy than I have with some of my closest friends. Dorothy was family. 

Dorothy passed away unexpectedly less than a week after her 60th birthday. So, I dedicate this post to her by sharing some of the happy times we had together.

One of my fondest memories of Dorothy is from when we celebrated my 30th birthday in New York City. She brought me all kinds of birthday goodies like a pink birthday crown, a NYC memory box, and even crafts to decorate our Today Show poster. I mean she brought everything you could think of - in her suitcase!! Rhinestones, glitter glue, puff paint, stickers, the works!! She truly made that trip so special and I'll never forget it. 

Dorothy will be missed by many and she will always hold a special place in my family's heart. Cathy I am so sorry you lost such a special friend. Her memory will live on through your stories and pictures of your travels together. How lucky you were to have such a fun travel companion! Be quick to share those happy moments - Dorothy wouldn't have it any other way. I was always so thankful to the Universe that you had her and she had you.

Dorothy's passing is a tragic reminder that life is short. Don't put happiness off. Follow Dorothy's example and enjoy today. Book that ticket. See the world. Love out. And dang it, just buy those cute shoes! Kiss your lovey, call your friends, and spend time with the people you love most in the world. 

Dorothy, I connect my thoughts to you and everyone you shared your beautiful life with.

Thursday, January 01, 2015

2014 Montage!

2014 flew by. Work was so incredibly busy and as I was trying to keep my head above water the days, weeks, and months were passing me by like ships in the night and all of a sudden it was Christmas again. I turned 32. Steve built some amazing furniture. We spent way too much money on pavement. I visited our Nation's Capitol. I spent lots of quality time with good friends and family. We had the best garden yet. We celebrated 5 years at Dwight Ranch. I saw wild dolphins (i.e. not Marine World dolphins) for the first time and it was magnificent. I took a yoga class for the first time in my life. (I also went to the Chiropractor for the first time in my life...hmmm). 

2015 is already slated to be busy but I am determined to slow it down and enjoy each moment. I have plans to visit my dad in early January, Mom in February, and Palm Springs in Spring! The new season of the Bachelor starts on Monday so we are off to a good start!!!

Here's to a very healthy, happy, and relaxing 2015.

2014 Annual from Jaime Dwight on Vimeo.

music: "C.L. Rosarian" and "Advanced Falconry" by Mutual Benefit

Monday, December 22, 2014

Don't Cheat in History

My first impression of Washington DC was "wow there is no fence around the National Monument!" This city was designed to be touched. You don't have to buy tickets (most everything is free!), wait in line, or stand behind red velvet ropes. You can literally walk up to (most) monuments and touch them - skin on stone. The National Monument was the first thing we saw as we popped out of the Metro station at the center of the city. Over the next few days, it would be our North Star. The monument sits atop a casual grassy hill, surrounded by American flags, and tourists meandering along walking trails. We didn't need to take a tour of the National Monument. We stood below it, peeked at it from across the city, and gazed at the glowing landmark across the river. The National Monument was the centerpiece of each sunset. 

The Korean War Memorial is pure art. The design draws you right into the melancholy as if we are all there alongside the soldiers, encouraging them to stay strong. The expressions on their faces heartbreaking. This was probably my favorite memorial...a definitely must-see.

DC is a clean freak. So there was an underground tunnel that connected our hotel to the Metro Station, restaurants, and shops (and a Walgreens!) and a section of this underground town had been transformed into an art gallery. Super white walls, bright lights, shiny floors, and men in crisp clean suits. No one painted graffiti on the walls, no one vandalized the artwork, and no one left any trash along the edges of the hallway. There was not even a speck of dirt or dust. I'm talking white glove clean. This was pretty much the case everywhere we went in DC. The metros were litter-free, the stations clean, the grass trimmed neatly, trees and bushes pruned, statues swiffered. No joke.

DC is also a place where you feel safe being a young female touring the sites alone. I spent two afternoons exploring the mall by myself and felt completely safe. Everywhere I looked, I saw police and secret service. On rooftops, roadsides, parks, walk ways, streets, museums, metro stations - they were everywhere. It was the first place that I have felt at ease hopping on a subway and finding a serene spot in the middle of a grassy lawn to read a book and eat candy all by myself.

The Arlington National Cemetery was breathtakingly gorgeous and I highly recommend visiting if you travel to DC. It was peaceful and lovely, and I could have spent another hour or two walking around perusing the grave stones. I will let the photos and my video of the Changing of the Guard tell the story.

The Changing of the Guard ritual at Arlington National Cemetery was so impressive. The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier is guarded by volunteer Sentinels 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Even though the soldiers are volunteers, it takes the perfect candidate to qualify as a Sentinel to guard the tomb. All soldiers are elite members of the 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment of the US Army. They must be between 5 feet 10 inches and 6 feet 4 inches tall, have an impeccable military record, be in superb physical condition, and have a proportionate weight and build. They must memorize seven pages of Arlington Cemetery history, and know exactly where more than 300 veterans are buried around the cemetery. The Changing of the Guard ceremony is full of symbolism and respect. The guards take exactly 21 steps, pause for 21 seconds...21 because the 21 gun salute is the highest military honor. These guards honor all American service members who are "known only but to god". So cool.

Changing of the Guard from Jaime Dwight on Vimeo.

Overall, I feel very fortunate that I was able to make the trip with my mom and aunt Cathy to share in a new place together. Here's to sipping moscow mules on rooftops, snagging the hunkiest rickshaw driver, eating sandy clams, and shopping tip we dropped! 

Also, a big thank you to Dr. Schoonover for giving me a tour of the State Department. I was very impressed with that place. Talk about tight security!!! Lockers for cell phones! I can't say anything else because it is all TOP SECRET! ;) I loved getting the insider's view to life in DC...made the trip all the more interesting!

And lastly, I will leave you with a stupid fact that I learned that I regrettably and naively did not know prior to visiting DC...but...this blew my mind....drum roll please...the Capitol building is NOT on the same property, i.e. next door to the White House!! GAH! And wait, it gets worse....I wondered if the President transits through underground tunnels to get to the Capitol building every day to work. Well folks...guess what? He works in the White House!! SHOCKING! ;) And that, my friends, is what you get for cheating in American History class.

Sunday, November 02, 2014

Local Fun

We played tourist when Steve's parents came to visit at the end of the summer. We fed and pet goats at Avila Barn, ate tacos at a roadside produce stand, and went on a tour of the Point San Luis Lighthouse which I highly recommend! The views on the way up to the lighthouse are spectacular, and the history there surprising. Did you know that during Prohibition, Point San Luis Harbor was a popular location for illegal movement of liquor?

Saturday, November 01, 2014


In August I went to San Francisco to attend the annual music festival, Outside Lands.


  • Not getting kidnapped or murdered by my AirBnB host! My first AirBnB experience was a bit strange being that we were in someone else's personal space, but super neat having that real SF living experience. I'd definitely do it again.
  • Local Natives was even more amazing live than I expected.
  • Got to see and hug my love Kara and the incredible Candace! (Not long enough!)
  • Adventuring with such a fun person like my girl Jenn!
  • Chocolate Zico!
  • Yummy San Fran cuisine and local beer.
  • Using my hippy sacks!

  • Hurting my knee while hunting down Jenn's cell phone.
  • Too many people!!
  • Difficult to get to the festival and even more difficult to get home (too many people!!)
  • Death Cab didn't play Sorrow in my Pinhole :(
  • Being too tired to go to Ikea the next day...

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